November 27, 2008
Let’s Clear This Up Once And For All.
It’s Thursday and that means it’s time for a snap poll.
Today’s topical discussion - Is going to a strip club and getting a lapdance the same as cheating?
Is he cheating by getting a lapdance? Or just enjoying a semi.
I have heard varying opinions on this. Some girls feel that their boyfriends getting a lapdance from a stripper is the equivalent of the girls then having a strange guy rub their balls up against them, so if their boyfriends are comfortable with that, then they can have their lapdances. Some guys feel it’s only cheating if you then end up having sex with the stripper, as long as it’s not the missionary position, as apparently that’s allowed if you’re left handed and originally hail from Port Elizabeth. (The P.E Law of 1981)
What are your thoughts on this? If a guy gets a lapdance is he in fact cheating on his girlfriend / wife?
What do you think?
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Ive heard of betty’s that enjoy going with their bf’s, hell they will even order some chow while they there…
Some women just accept that many men enjoy the fantasy of having women all over them…
eating is cheating….
I think it’s only cheating if you touch their boobies, or if they touch your winky.
Otherwise, it’s game on.
It’s only physical cheating if there is flesh contact (because who is going to EMOTIONALLY cheat with a stripper??).
I still think its very ‘trailer park’ though!
If the boyfriend/husband is happy that his girlfriend/wife gets the same treatment from a stunning male stripper then …. why not?? What’s good vir the gander is good for the goose.
Well, seeing as though most strippers are all of eastern European descent, a lapdance can be seen as a cultural experience and not a sexual one.
I like to keep telling myself that.
Yeah I love talking about Russia n shit..;)
Pardon, Ukraine.
Ah man, its not cheating! I ended up at teasers after my birthday bash this year out of curiosity.
Seriously, half those chicks are so ugly I’d be curious to see if a guy would last longer than two days with her once the novelty of hooking up with a stripper wore off.
It’s not cheating. Final.
I agree with SuperS …. Men are Men are Men are Men …… and they cant help it!! We just haveta love them even with all their foibles ….. because, without us gals …. well, they would be lost!!! That’s how I treat my hubby and he ADORES & SPOILS me rotten … so I gotta be doing it right…… No, not the lapdancing …. Hey, were you listening???